Will ambiguous moments between friends become lovers?
Dating and flings may look and feel the same because both parties don't put a label on their relationship. In some cases, you may act like you're on a date, but don't have an established conversation about friends become lovers. Tenuous connections can also feel particularly vulnerable.
If you're wondering if this is the case for you, there are some consistent characteristics you can look out for.
1. There is no defined relationship (DTR) dialog.
2. You are engaging in a girlfriend/boyfriend activity, but you both indicate it is casual.
3. You haven’t been meaningfully involved in each other’s lives yet—you haven’t met their family, friends, or coworkers.
4. One or both of you are still dating and hooking up with other people.
5. You don’t make plans ahead of time; usually a week or two before, the same day, or a few hours before.
6. Sex may be an important part of your relationship, or the most important part.
7. Your time together is irregular – you can spend the weekend with them and then have no contact for a few days.
8. You are not making a meaningful commitment to the relationship or the future.
9. No indication of intention to commit to each other.
10. You are physically close, but not emotionally close.
11. You talk about a lot of different topics but are vague about emotions.
12. The relationship doesn’t really develop; It remains vague.
13. You feel anxious and uncomfortable expressing your true needs in front of them.
14. Tell them what you want and you feel like you're walking on eggshells.
15. You don’t really go on a date together; It’s more casual and go with the flow.
16. They tell you straight up that they don’t want a serious relationship.
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