How to quickly shorten the distance with strangers?
In our life, we often face strangers and don’t know anything about their background, hobbies, and personality.
How can we avoid embarrassment and establish contact with each other quickly?
Different people have different methods, and many people will choose to talk freely, express themselves, and try to break the silence. In fact, at this time, we must first ask ourselves: What is the prerequisite for the other person to establish a friendly relationship with you? If that person gets defensive about you. will you have further contact?
It is very important to establish a sense of trust at the beginning, so how to shorten the distance with strangers, how to establish trust and subsequent contact?
1. Introduction to yourself: be clear and short, so that the other person can understand and have an impression at once.
2. What you have in common: Tell us what you have in common, which will help you to draw closer to each other, for example: what you have participated in together, your hometown, your common experience, your friends you know in common (be careful not to mention people who arouse the other person’s vigilance )...
This depends on the depth of relationship you want to establish with the other person. The method is as follows:
1. Add Whatsapp to each other and send your phone number to the other person, which expresses your sincerity in wanting to establish follow-up contact with the other person;
2. Recommend something suitable for the other person, such as:
"I see that you pay more attention to fitness. I have been paying attention to this account. It is very authoritative and practical. I recommend it to you. You can take a look."
"I watched a movie/book recently, it was very inspiring, I can watch it when I have time, the name is "XXXX""
"Just now we talked about shopping, this product is good, I will share it with you;"
Or you can exchange any kind of information.
It is very important to establish a connection with strangers. We must also pay attention to "too much to go too far". After all, it is the first time we meet, pay attention to maintain an appropriate distance, avoid getting too close, make the other person feel uncomfortable and defensive, and keep "just right" , which is conducive to subsequent communication.
The method is important, but our mentality is more important. Only by maintaining the greatest kindness, sincerity and respect can we truly enter the other person's heart. Now, imagine some situations in which you recently met a stranger and practice how to use it!
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How can we avoid embarrassment and establish contact with each other quickly?
Different people have different methods, and many people will choose to talk freely, express themselves, and try to break the silence. In fact, at this time, we must first ask ourselves: What is the prerequisite for the other person to establish a friendly relationship with you? If that person gets defensive about you. will you have further contact?
It is very important to establish a sense of trust at the beginning, so how to shorten the distance with strangers, how to establish trust and subsequent contact?
1. Introduction to yourself: be clear and short, so that the other person can understand and have an impression at once.
2. What you have in common: Tell us what you have in common, which will help you to draw closer to each other, for example: what you have participated in together, your hometown, your common experience, your friends you know in common (be careful not to mention people who arouse the other person’s vigilance )...
This depends on the depth of relationship you want to establish with the other person. The method is as follows:
1. Add Whatsapp to each other and send your phone number to the other person, which expresses your sincerity in wanting to establish follow-up contact with the other person;
2. Recommend something suitable for the other person, such as:
"I see that you pay more attention to fitness. I have been paying attention to this account. It is very authoritative and practical. I recommend it to you. You can take a look."
"I watched a movie/book recently, it was very inspiring, I can watch it when I have time, the name is "XXXX""
"Just now we talked about shopping, this product is good, I will share it with you;"
Or you can exchange any kind of information.
It is very important to establish a connection with strangers. We must also pay attention to "too much to go too far". After all, it is the first time we meet, pay attention to maintain an appropriate distance, avoid getting too close, make the other person feel uncomfortable and defensive, and keep "just right" , which is conducive to subsequent communication.
The method is important, but our mentality is more important. Only by maintaining the greatest kindness, sincerity and respect can we truly enter the other person's heart. Now, imagine some situations in which you recently met a stranger and practice how to use it!
Through the Flala APP, you can find more interesting people, hurry up and join them~
Download FLALA now to explore good life around you!